As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it. The gold is in the footnotes and sources linked from those new essays. Whatever you do, just don't let on to your child ren that you and their father are in disagreement.
If only I knew. She won't marry you. It's a fair question and you've already been super accommodating.
From someone else in the medical field - a nightly phone call would be seriously draining, even if it only lasted a few minutes. I am very active with my work, social life, and activities and independent. This is the rule rather than the exception. I let people assume what they will. That is a reality you can't change. This is something I see on an everyday basis.
The answer is, most emphatically, NO. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. I've been searching around for advice, and this blog page is probably the most informative on the topic of dating a doctor as I've been able to find anywhere. He has sacrificed parts of his career as well. I am married to an interventional cardiologist. If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. They require a healthy dose of flexibility, nontraditional expectations, and teamwork You aren't always gonna have a Christmas etc I can understand it would be hard to understand the cues you are getting if you have no basis for that lifestyle, but really think it over.